feat(coding-agent): expose deliverAs option in hook sendMessage() API

- pi.sendMessage(msg, options?) now accepts { triggerTurn?, deliverAs? }
- deliverAs: 'steer' (default) or 'followUp' controls delivery timing
- Update all mode handlers to pass options through
- Update file-trigger example to use new API
- Update CHANGELOG

packages/coding-agent/src/modes/rpc/rpc-mode.ts

@@ -181,8 +181,8 @@ export async function runRpcMode(session: AgentSession): Promise<never> {
 	if (hookRunner) {
 		hookRunner.initialize({
 			getModel: () => session.agent.state.model,
-			sendMessageHandler: (message, triggerTurn) => {
-				session.sendHookMessage(message, { triggerTurn }).catch((e) => {
+			sendMessageHandler: (message, options) => {
+				session.sendHookMessage(message, options).catch((e) => {
 					output(error(undefined, "hook_send", e.message));
 				});
 			},